Looking Behind …
Another New Year looms ahead and it’s bright and filled with new hope for what it may hold for us and those we love. Every year at about this time, I can’t help glancing behind me and taking stock of expectations from the year before.
May 2026 bring you joy, success, and new adventures. I hope you will fill it with good health, love, and making many wonderful memories.
Looking Behind ... by C.J. Heck There comes a time in life when we all look behind. We see goals met as more important than goals not met. We see unattained dreams still within reach, and we now have more time to go after them. In looking behind, we view love as 'is that all there is?' For a lucky few, it is 'forever'. Our children raised, our grandkids growing, we recognize in them our second chance. There comes a time for all of us when happily ever after seems less important in the long haul. We've come to see our real security lies in happily every now and then. Over time, we've accepted the me 'as is' as pretty damned good, and at last, we recognize the true wisdom of allowing ourselves the gift of contentment. There comes a time for us all.
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These are words full of wisdom, C.J. 🌟
So true. And it seems that Substack runs in trends some days. Your poem is the second bit of writing that deals with this subject of discovering contenment after decades of life. Here's a link to the other one: https://followmentalgarden.substack.com/p/virginia-woolf-love?publication_id=2503932&post_id=182578251&isFreemail=true&r=1gbs2n&triedRedirect=true&utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email