Thirty was uneventful except for a haircut I didn't like. For me 35 was a big year. I was married and went mountain and jungle trekking in Northern Thailand. When we returned to the U.S. I started having very high, cyclical fevers. The first couple lineups of doctors would not listen to my travel history. Instead they tested me for brain cancer, liver cancer, etc., and botched a spinal tap for which they claimed I consented. I was stoned on fever and opioid, so I couldn't have given an informed consent. So I advise against hesitancy at 30. They're out to get you at any age.
Bob, I’m so sorry you had to go through that. How awful! I’m glad it all turned out okay and you’re here. You are such an excellent writer and a good friend.
I was fine at this point . Playing in a band , having my two kids . Nothing had really changed , except no longer was drinking . great article C.J. .Hugs and peace
Loved the period of time around my 30s 🥰 … what advice would l give my 30 year old self l ponder? 🤔🤯🤦♀️. Nearly 30 years later, l am a pro-ager 😂, l am embracing getting older and embracing my wrinkles 🤣🤣🤣
You may be a pro-ager, but I've seen your photos, remember ... you're one of those people with timeless good looks. Wrinkles only add character to faces like yours. ❤️
😂😂😂, yours, my wrinkles run deep 🤣, l call them laughter lines … they run so deep l have to embrace them 🤦♀️🤣🥰. My mother always tried to encourage me to look after my face … no, out in the sun, at the beach, all day. My sister inherited the smooth Slavic skin of our father’s side … and she looked after her skin.
I'll agree, it probably is hard for today's sons and daughters to go out on their own by 30. However, housing costs depend on where you buy. Both coasts are probably the most expensive, but there are a lot of great cities where the housing is much less. Do some research online. Thank you for your comment, Simon.
Thirty was uneventful except for a haircut I didn't like. For me 35 was a big year. I was married and went mountain and jungle trekking in Northern Thailand. When we returned to the U.S. I started having very high, cyclical fevers. The first couple lineups of doctors would not listen to my travel history. Instead they tested me for brain cancer, liver cancer, etc., and botched a spinal tap for which they claimed I consented. I was stoned on fever and opioid, so I couldn't have given an informed consent. So I advise against hesitancy at 30. They're out to get you at any age.
Bob, I’m so sorry you had to go through that. How awful! I’m glad it all turned out okay and you’re here. You are such an excellent writer and a good friend.
I was fine at this point . Playing in a band , having my two kids . Nothing had really changed , except no longer was drinking . great article C.J. .Hugs and peace
Thank you, Mitch.
Hugs and peace to you, too.
Back at you .C.J.
Loved the period of time around my 30s 🥰 … what advice would l give my 30 year old self l ponder? 🤔🤯🤦♀️. Nearly 30 years later, l am a pro-ager 😂, l am embracing getting older and embracing my wrinkles 🤣🤣🤣
You may be a pro-ager, but I've seen your photos, remember ... you're one of those people with timeless good looks. Wrinkles only add character to faces like yours. ❤️
😂😂😂, yours, my wrinkles run deep 🤣, l call them laughter lines … they run so deep l have to embrace them 🤦♀️🤣🥰. My mother always tried to encourage me to look after my face … no, out in the sun, at the beach, all day. My sister inherited the smooth Slavic skin of our father’s side … and she looked after her skin.
My sister is like yours. She’s three years younger though and I keep telling her … just wait!
I was a lifeguard every summer in high school. Sun, sun, sun, like you.
My sister is 2 years older ... 🤣 Yeah, we lived on the beach ... my happy place.
That is meant to read ‘yes’, not yours 🤦♀️
I guess the advice to my 30 year old self would be to use face moisturiser 😂
Who moves out at 30 these days? :/
I envy Gen X and Older in that regards, only Millionaires can move out these days.
Costs $1-$2 Million dollars to buy a house.
I'll agree, it probably is hard for today's sons and daughters to go out on their own by 30. However, housing costs depend on where you buy. Both coasts are probably the most expensive, but there are a lot of great cities where the housing is much less. Do some research online. Thank you for your comment, Simon.
You’re welcome.
Guess that explains the issue, grew up on the coast.
This is my raw 30 1/2 year old perspective on adulting currently.
Thanks so much for bringing the interior up. :)