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♏️Seer's avatar

dirt🙄

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C.J. Heck's avatar

What’s dirt?

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♏️Seer's avatar

@C.J. Heck

I just can't s👀m to find any!🩷

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C.J. Heck's avatar

No Pet Peeves? You are in the minority.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Ohhhh, you mean you don’t have any Pet Peeves?

You’re very lucky, Seer. 💕😊

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Tom Hames's avatar

It drives me nuts when someone tries to talk with food in their mouth. A close second is chewing with the mouth open.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Yes, those are also on my list, Tom, but further down, not Pets. Thank you for sharing a couple of yours!

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

I've always thought of that as colloquial. Some rural people in the West talk like that. Where's he at? Out'n the barn.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Hmmm … I guarantee the rural West learned proper English grammar from the same textbooks the rest of the country was taught from.

Good grammar has got to be reinforced and bad grammar corrected at home and if Mom and Dad and, before them, Gram and Grampa, all said, “Where’s he at?”, good grammar was not going to go forward ...

I equate this with the word, “ain’t”. It was misused so much, for so many years, that eventually it was begrudgingly accepted. Even good ol’ Webster added it to his dictionary and called it colloquial.

I think the grammar sticklers (of which I am a member) will continue to drop the “at” and ignore “ain’t” forever … (wink)

Thanks, Sue!

💕😊❤️😊

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David Perlmutter's avatar

You wouldn't like the way English is spoken in Newfoundland (Canada) then- one of their regular greeting phrases is "What are ya at?"

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Oh No! I would spend my days with my shoulders scrunched up in a perpetual cringe! 🤣😁😂

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David Perlmutter's avatar

Their dialect is…interesting, to say the least. I put that up to them existing independently before they joined Canada in 1949.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

I didn’t know that — I learned something new today. Thank you, David.

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David King's avatar

“Awesome”

“It’s like, I mean…”

And the phrase, “well, I’m just not sure” trotted out when decisions need to be made.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Those are all good examples, David! Those do get old!

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Francesca Bossert's avatar

I have a similar one, but in French, so there's not much point in telling you! If I think of something in English I'll come back :)

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C.J. Heck's avatar

That would be fine, Cesca.

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Morning Musings's avatar

Errors in grammar or punctuation on a sign. There is a NO SEMI'S sign in a local parking lot that makes me grind my teeth every time I see it.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

That’s a good one, Morning Musing!

I remember when I was in high school, we had a name for fast dancing. We called it “trucking”.

The city had one road with several mean pot holes and people were complaining, especially delivery truck drivers, and I assume the city had no funds to fix it. They put up a sign at either end that said, “No heavy trucking.”

We high school kids got a huge kick out of the sign! Anytime we spotted it, we mocked it by fake heavy dancing until we were past the sign!

Ahhh, memories …

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mitch's avatar

Messy house since 2016 yuk . Great post C J . hugs and love trust me i have other pet peeves lol.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Make me a list of them, Mitch. Could you do that please? I would like to make up a poll about them. Thank you!

hugs and love

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mitch's avatar

Ok I will shortly . Will send them personal on here . hugs to you

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Okay, Mitch. Thank you.

hugs and love

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Emika Oka's avatar

I have a lot of them. Too much to mention 🤣🤣🤣

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C.J. Heck's avatar

I think we all have a lot, Emika! It’s overwhelming, isn’t it?

Thank you!

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♏️Seer's avatar

DIRT truly is my pet peeve!😘

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Aha, dirt. That’s something that’s everywhere! I wish you luck! 😊💕

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C. Mercaldi-Cotton's avatar

Hey, Chill, Dude--it's where it's AT, Man!

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Thank you for sharing, Carol —that’s a good one!

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Thank you for the restack, Seer!

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