Hi C. J . I agree with most of post .Yet there are other reasons too . Married to young and thought it was love , and so on . love the post very much , Hugs and peace to CJ and all on her post
Wish it was because i was to young lol. I will always love my kids that isn't in question . yet today keeping most away . As my post yesterday got to me a lot more than i thought . So taking meds and even one i haven;t taken in a year . Hugs to you and family pssst stay away from storms lol
I really like your substack, but this post in particular I don’t like that much. Because one of the first questions that came to my mind when reading this was “What is a good relationship?” My opinion of a good relationship is vastly different from what was discussed here, so already from the start you lost me. This is not a critique on your work overall, but this post was difficult to understand for me. I don’t comment on all the posts that I like though, so I think I should really specify this: I really like your work and your substack! You only see this comment and not how much I liked all of your other posts though…
Hello Kathy. Thank you for all the nice things you said about my posts. As to today's post, it was all about what makes a relationship fail. Here is the title: "Why Does a Good Relationship Fail?" The secondary tile under it was "There's not just one reason ..."
I'm very sorry to hear I lost you and it was hard to understand. Again, this was geared toward people who had a relationship fail and they wondered why it did. It was a tongue-in-cheek post, actually, and not at all meant to be taken seriously. Please give me another chance?
Thank you for taking the time to send me a message.
Both parties need to share the same bank account. Can it even be a partnership if they don’t? Seeing this more and more in the younger generations. No shared account = no trust. Hard to strengthen a relationship with separate accounts me thinks?
You are absolutely right, Jamie! No shared account would bring about a trust issue. Even if they have a shared account for paying bills, gas, groceries, things for the home, but each having a small separate savings account would b okay for incidentals like poker night with the guys, or a girls night out or lunch with friends. I could live with that as long as they have a joint account they both contribute to for the big items.
Same! Somewhere along the way, there was a big push for independence, which I totally understand yet interdependence is the language of a relationship. But what do I know lol! I live in to the questions 🙏❤️
Hi C. J . I agree with most of post .Yet there are other reasons too . Married to young and thought it was love , and so on . love the post very much , Hugs and peace to CJ and all on her post
You have two miracles from your marriage, even if you were too young. Love them, Mitch. Hold them close and love them.
Wish it was because i was to young lol. I will always love my kids that isn't in question . yet today keeping most away . As my post yesterday got to me a lot more than i thought . So taking meds and even one i haven;t taken in a year . Hugs to you and family pssst stay away from storms lol
The first wave of storms came through about an hour ago. Terrible! High, high wind, and the rain! OMG the rain!
You are in my thoughts, Mitch. Good on the meds!
hugs and peace
Storm is not good at all , I told it to stay away lol. High winds and massive rain huh .I hope no damage to your house .Hugs and peace
I can't go out and look right now. Later though ...
hugs and peace
I really like your substack, but this post in particular I don’t like that much. Because one of the first questions that came to my mind when reading this was “What is a good relationship?” My opinion of a good relationship is vastly different from what was discussed here, so already from the start you lost me. This is not a critique on your work overall, but this post was difficult to understand for me. I don’t comment on all the posts that I like though, so I think I should really specify this: I really like your work and your substack! You only see this comment and not how much I liked all of your other posts though…
Hello Kathy. Thank you for all the nice things you said about my posts. As to today's post, it was all about what makes a relationship fail. Here is the title: "Why Does a Good Relationship Fail?" The secondary tile under it was "There's not just one reason ..."
I'm very sorry to hear I lost you and it was hard to understand. Again, this was geared toward people who had a relationship fail and they wondered why it did. It was a tongue-in-cheek post, actually, and not at all meant to be taken seriously. Please give me another chance?
Thank you for taking the time to send me a message.
Ah, I understand now. Thank you for responding! I guess I just wasn’t the target audience. Now I know how to interpret it!
Both parties need to share the same bank account. Can it even be a partnership if they don’t? Seeing this more and more in the younger generations. No shared account = no trust. Hard to strengthen a relationship with separate accounts me thinks?
You are absolutely right, Jamie! No shared account would bring about a trust issue. Even if they have a shared account for paying bills, gas, groceries, things for the home, but each having a small separate savings account would b okay for incidentals like poker night with the guys, or a girls night out or lunch with friends. I could live with that as long as they have a joint account they both contribute to for the big items.
What’s your opinion?
Same! Somewhere along the way, there was a big push for independence, which I totally understand yet interdependence is the language of a relationship. But what do I know lol! I live in to the questions 🙏❤️