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C.J. Heck's avatar

Patricia, thank you for restacking my post!

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Tom Hames's avatar

Nice story C.J.

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Thank you, Tom

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

A great message. Thank you, C.J.✨

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Thank YOU, Trudi.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

🥰

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C.J. Heck's avatar

❤️💕😍

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Jo-Ann Petrarca's avatar

Who wants to rush at my age? Most of my youth I was in a rush. Why was that you ask? Who knows, when we’re young, we think we’re the cats meow. We feel invincible in a way, not really putting enough thought into what we’re doing or where we’re going. As an elder, I realized how important it is to take a deep breath, and another and another. Life goes by in hyper speed, and we should never rush one thing. After all, who knows what we missed while we were rushing around. I loved my youth but more comfortable at 72, I know who I AM. Much appreciation for this CJ and hope the physical pain you endure subsides somehow. By the way, you’re right, we have definitely earned the right to slow down.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

You have a great outlook, Jo-Ann. Who knows, maybe we’ll pass each other on our nice and easy excursions out one day. I would like that.

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Jo-Ann Petrarca's avatar

That would be so wonderful!

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C.J. Heck's avatar

I think so, too!

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

Didn't look at it that way, but you're right. We do have all the time and why not enjoy the stroll. Thank you.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Thank you, Sue. 😊💕

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David King's avatar

I'm with Grandma. Thanks

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Hello David —I agree with Grand-Ma-Ma, too!

Thank you!

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David King's avatar

It is surprising who you find your self talking to (other than yourself, which I find rather helpful, actually) when you find you are no longer the fastest horse on the track.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Can you be more specific, David?

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David King's avatar

Was thinking of line & waiting room conversations with children, teens, and 20+s. Just ask a few questions & listen a lot, but now and again they’ll ask or say something unexpected. I learn common parlance definitions that way. Got a dissertation one day on memes from two teens that was delightful; memes as a mental picture, or a video.

Takes time to slow your pace, to learn to see, and hear, & taste.

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Linda S's avatar

A couple of days ago I was walking on the sidewalk to enter the grocery store when a man in a motorized wheelchair arrived and I moved over to the right. He laughed as he said loudly to me, "I wouldnt run over an old lady." I was the one now who was laughing, and I still am as I write this. He helped me to see how others see me and that's ok.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Yes, Linda. That was an eye-opener to me when it happened, too. You were nice … I gave the eye opener a dirty look! 😁😁😂🤣😁

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Steven and Jo-Ann thank you for restacking this post. I appreciate it and I appreciate you.

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Thank you most sincerely to those who have restacked this post today. You are the best and I appreciate you.

Hugs

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Thank you, Jo-Ann and Patricia for the restack!

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