Thank you, Trudi. The year contacts came out in my town, I was a sophomore in high school. Things were different for me after I got them. I remember I could see individual raindrops fall for the first time. I was awed.
That’s very true. Pretty is ground into us every day through TV commercials and in magazine ads. It was extremely hard raising three self confident daughters when TV continually reinforced everything they needed to be ‘pretty’:
“use this so you don’t get wrinkles, this so you won’t sweat, this so your teeth are white, this so you have clean breath, this so you don’t get fat, this so your skin is smooth, this so you don’t get pregnant, this so your eyelashes are longer, this so you smell sexy, this to make your zits go away, yada yada yada …
Mama didn’t want us thinking about our outsides, just what was inside.
I remember one time being in line at the grocery and a lady Mama knew was in front of us. She looked at my sister and very quietly said, “Oh, Joanne, she’s so cute.” and Mama hurriedly put her finger to her lips, shook her head and said, “Shhhhh.”
🤦♀️🤣 … it’s funny, l can’t remember asking my mum that question … l am sure l did … l wasn’t at all confident about my looks … always dressed in jeans or shorts and t shirt, no make up etc … still like that 🤣. My mother always told the story that l started refusing to wear dresses at 3 years of age. She used to encourage me to put make up on but l only ever did that when l went to formal events etc. clearly, l wasn’t part of the pretty girl group at school 🤣
You’re very kind C.J … l am embracing my deep laughter lines 🤣. I started wearing glasses in 10th grade. I used contacts for a while in my 20s but l was smoking then and galavanting in pubs so they dried my eyes out too much. Now l am just used to glasses 🤓🤣🤦♀️
Good morning C.J, I dreamt l was at a long table with other people but l couldn’t see them all. I don’t often remember my dreams in detail. Hope you’re having a good day 💜.
It’s morning? Did you sleep well with your table of people? Busy day. I have my youngest coming on the 9th if this doggone tropical storm doesn’t make a problem. Have cleaning to do …yuck.
Such a great poem mama C . J . lol. Love the part about a loving heart , that makes her prettiest in her class . Many kids think looks are the thing , Yet we age and looks change , A loving heart is here to stay , we need more like mama C . J . hugs and peace and stay safe from the storm
Your a good friend C . J. As well as your family i haven't met . You and hubby and family stay safe and away from the storm , Or tell it to stay away from you . hugs and peace
Aha, you saw that nasty storm that’s bearing down on us … yeah, we’re watching it, too. It might disrupt some important plans for us.
My birthday is August 10 and my daughter from North Carolina is flying into Florida on the 9th to be here for my birthday. I’m crossing my fingers, my toes, and my eyes that the storm will just disappear …
My Birthday is the 6th . Yes I have been trying to keep a track on the storms , C. J . I will cross everything I can , So your daughter can get there , And you can have a great b day . Please stay safe . hugs and peace to you and family
A fellow Leo! Excellent! Leos are good people! Thank you for all you’re doing. ❤️💕
My family is scattered all over. A daughter and family live in New Hampshire, her oldest and his girlfriend are in North Carolina. My oldest daughter and her family are in New York, and my youngest, the one who is coming down, and her family live in North Carolina.
My siblings all live in Ohio —Robert’s dad and siblings are all still in the hometown we’re from in Ohio. I have cousins in Kentucky and Wyoming, too.
Wow you are lucky to have a big family .Except for my two grown kids , Think we are all that is left of my family . Sounds like you have one big loving family , And of course Roberts family . So to big families . hugs to you and one to Robert say Hi to him for me
Me thinks 🤔🤔🤔 mama was right ! 🤷♂️
Awww, ((( hug )))
Oh that’s beautiful ✨
Thank you, Trudi. The year contacts came out in my town, I was a sophomore in high school. Things were different for me after I got them. I remember I could see individual raindrops fall for the first time. I was awed.
That’s incredible! Being able to see clearly is something not to be taken for granted ❤️
Very true. It was a whole new world.
Love it! My oldest daughter used to ask me that question. She was still a pre-schooler. And yes, she is beautiful….
I’m so glad you could relate to my poem, Charles. Thank you!
Pretty means so much to us on Planet Earth. Your beauty inside automatically makes you beautiful on the outside. Ever notice that?
That’s very true. Pretty is ground into us every day through TV commercials and in magazine ads. It was extremely hard raising three self confident daughters when TV continually reinforced everything they needed to be ‘pretty’:
“use this so you don’t get wrinkles, this so you won’t sweat, this so your teeth are white, this so you have clean breath, this so you don’t get fat, this so your skin is smooth, this so you don’t get pregnant, this so your eyelashes are longer, this so you smell sexy, this to make your zits go away, yada yada yada …
I love how this poem ends, makes me smile 😊
Mama didn’t want us thinking about our outsides, just what was inside.
I remember one time being in line at the grocery and a lady Mama knew was in front of us. She looked at my sister and very quietly said, “Oh, Joanne, she’s so cute.” and Mama hurriedly put her finger to her lips, shook her head and said, “Shhhhh.”
… only what was inside.
How sweet, what a fabulous woman 😊
But it can backfire, too, vis a vis the poem. I was afraid I looked like the underside of a horse's tail ...(giggle snort)
🤦♀️🤣 … it’s funny, l can’t remember asking my mum that question … l am sure l did … l wasn’t at all confident about my looks … always dressed in jeans or shorts and t shirt, no make up etc … still like that 🤣. My mother always told the story that l started refusing to wear dresses at 3 years of age. She used to encourage me to put make up on but l only ever did that when l went to formal events etc. clearly, l wasn’t part of the pretty girl group at school 🤣
You were/are beautiful. I've seen your picture!
I just didn't want to be "bug-eyes" or "four-eyes" any more. 10th grade high school I finally got contacts.
You’re very kind C.J … l am embracing my deep laughter lines 🤣. I started wearing glasses in 10th grade. I used contacts for a while in my 20s but l was smoking then and galavanting in pubs so they dried my eyes out too much. Now l am just used to glasses 🤓🤣🤦♀️
Good night 4 eyes. Love from 4 eyes 😎🤓🥰
Hahahahaha! Love it! I hope you sleep well and dream of puppies and kitties and everything nice.
love and hugs,
Good morning C.J, I dreamt l was at a long table with other people but l couldn’t see them all. I don’t often remember my dreams in detail. Hope you’re having a good day 💜.
It’s morning? Did you sleep well with your table of people? Busy day. I have my youngest coming on the 9th if this doggone tropical storm doesn’t make a problem. Have cleaning to do …yuck.
Loved your poem! You know, since I had cataract surgery, I can see things more clearly now! Especially my dirty house!
Hahahaha, I know what you mean! Thank you for your kind words. I’m glad you liked the poem.
Such a great poem mama C . J . lol. Love the part about a loving heart , that makes her prettiest in her class . Many kids think looks are the thing , Yet we age and looks change , A loving heart is here to stay , we need more like mama C . J . hugs and peace and stay safe from the storm
Mama was a special lady and I miss her. Thank you for all of your kind words, Mitch. You’re a good friend.
Have a nice weekend!
hugs and peace
Your a good friend C . J. As well as your family i haven't met . You and hubby and family stay safe and away from the storm , Or tell it to stay away from you . hugs and peace
You’re a good friend, too, Mitch. 💕
Aha, you saw that nasty storm that’s bearing down on us … yeah, we’re watching it, too. It might disrupt some important plans for us.
My birthday is August 10 and my daughter from North Carolina is flying into Florida on the 9th to be here for my birthday. I’m crossing my fingers, my toes, and my eyes that the storm will just disappear …
hugs and peace, Mitch
My Birthday is the 6th . Yes I have been trying to keep a track on the storms , C. J . I will cross everything I can , So your daughter can get there , And you can have a great b day . Please stay safe . hugs and peace to you and family
A fellow Leo! Excellent! Leos are good people! Thank you for all you’re doing. ❤️💕
My family is scattered all over. A daughter and family live in New Hampshire, her oldest and his girlfriend are in North Carolina. My oldest daughter and her family are in New York, and my youngest, the one who is coming down, and her family live in North Carolina.
My siblings all live in Ohio —Robert’s dad and siblings are all still in the hometown we’re from in Ohio. I have cousins in Kentucky and Wyoming, too.
I don’t see them all too often.
Wow you are lucky to have a big family .Except for my two grown kids , Think we are all that is left of my family . Sounds like you have one big loving family , And of course Roberts family . So to big families . hugs to you and one to Robert say Hi to him for me